Is there someone you envy? The best thing you can do is to befriend them. When you express your admiration for their accomplishments, they will be happy to pass on tips on how you, too, can be successful. Instead of nurturing resentment, inspire yourself by their example, and emulate their success. Focus on, "How can I achieve that?" instead of "I wish I had that." Use your negative emotions to help you grow. Life is like photography; we need negatives to develop.
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